Brian and Aria, a FEARLESS Model, discuss and demonstrate the subtleties of how to stop being needy with women in this first video of a 3-part series on subtle behaviors that can ruin attraction.
Watch Part 2: How to be cocky in a good way
Neediness is an extremely pervasive stumbling block for men in connecting with women and creating sexual chemistry and attraction with them. It’s that “Please like me!” energy and vibe. And though some dating coaches and experts may teach you techniques to avoid neediness, ultimately it’s about how you are truly feeling inside. So, as Brian and Aria demonstrate and discuss, it’s the feeling of being unsure of yourself and needing her to make you feel good that kills interactions and pushes women away.
Can you hear how Brian’s examples demonstrate being unsure of yourself and needing the woman to make you feel safe interacting with her? His tone of voice in those examples lacks solidity and leading. But again, it’s not about “fixing your tone of voice” as a vocal technique. You want to start working on the feelings internally that are making that weak tone of voice and vocal inflections come out.
When Brian comes from a place of enjoying her instead of worrying about himself or whether she approves of him, the whole vibe of their interaction is different.
And even when he comes from a more nervous place but still enjoys her anyway, it’s still very attractive and powerful.
So the more you can focus on enjoying the women in front of you and even enjoying your nervousness (Remember that like a roller coaster or skydiving, fear can be fun!), the better and more connected your interactions will be. That’s how to stop being needy with women you’re meeting, flirting with, and getting to know.
Watch Part 2: How to be cocky in a good way
Related:
Dealing with Nervousness Around Women – How to “Own It”
