Developing into a third stage man is the key to becoming magnetically attractive to women and powerfully successful in career, money, and life. In this video, I explain what it is to be authentically elite as a man and how cultivating Third Stage Men can change the world.
I traveled to Bucharest, Romania, and talked to a group of “Ars Amorata” students of Zan Perrion’s. An author, speaker, and coach, Zan is perhaps most famous for being written about in “The Game” by Neil Strauss, but he does not identify at all as a PUA (Pickup Artist) – Zan teaches the art of authentically connecting with, loving, and being confident with women.
My success and confidence philosophies often borrow from the work of David Deida (author, “The Way of the Superior Man) and his “three stages” of masculinity and femininity. This powerful talk to Zan’s students breaks down these three stages, my own journey from an anxiety-ridden, manipulative, first-stage “nice guy” into my continuing development into third-stage beingness, the state of masculinity (and femininity) in society today, and what the third stage-and success-looks like in the business world, attraction, and relationships. Put simply, it’s about developing a great relationship to all kinds of tension.
We teach a very affordable two-day seminar called The FEARLESS Man Live that focuses on masculinity and being a Third Stage Man, developing confidence, stepping into tension, fear, and vulnerability, connecting with women and deepening relationships, and sex. I bring in our FEARLESS Models to demo connection exercises and what the aforementioned things look like (you may very well get to work with them and get directly coached by me if you’re bold enough to step into the tension of volunteering!) and provide their feminine perspective throughout the weekend, and we even have some of our advanced alumni and assistant coaches take you out on the first night to help you get into action and get immediate feedback and guidance. Check out The FEARLESS Man Live here!
Watch more…
-on tension in life: Decisiveness and being Cool under Pressure
-on sexual tension: Getting the First Kiss: Building and Dancing with Sexual Tension
-on breaking out of second stage masculinity: How to Stop the Nice Guy Syndrome
-Take a look inside Day 1 of the FEARLESS Man Experience Intensive
Resources
“Losing my Virginity” by Richard Branson
TED Talk on stress
Arnold Schwarzenegger video referenced
Music by DJ X Plus (Quintin Howze) – check him out on SoundCloud
