In this video, Brian discusses three false beliefs slowing men down with women and their overall personal development.
Summarizing 3 World Views Men Get Wrong About Women
1. Thinking you are broken.
A lot of people in their personal development journey are coming from the mindset and belief that they’re broken and they need to “fix” themselves. But if you want to learn a new language, learn how to play the piano, or learn to play a sport, are you broken because you don’t know how to do what you want to do yet? Of course not – you’re simply learning something new and growing.
What you focus on expands, so if you’re focused on being broken or fixing yourself, your personal development – especially when it comes to women, your dating life, or really any emotional element of your life that you’ve struggled with in the past – is going to be much more difficult, slow, and painful than it needs to be.
2. Believing it’s hard to change, grow, and succeed.
Again, what you focus on expands. So if you arr focused on how hard it is for you to grow and succeed the way you want to, your mind will go to work to prove you right. Conversely, if you focus and meditate on all the possibilities of life, growth, and success being easy, you’re likely to grow faster and have an easier, more fun experience doing it.
In the video, Brian also talks about an interesting mental game you can get caught up in.
3. Women don’t like sex nearly as much as men.
Your job as a man is to help women feel safe enough to be sexually free and be seen as more than just a sex toy, but you don’t have to “trick” women into bed – Women actually love sex. Often, more than men! And even more often, their fantasies and desires are more explicit than the average man. As Brian discusses in the video, reading books like My Secret Garden and Fifty Shades of Grey (we get a small commission if you buy through those links) along with women’s magazines can help you change your perspective on just how much women love sex.
Enjoy the video!
