A viewer asks: Is 30 too late to get good with women?
Question from @nobodyisperfect – he asks: “The thing that frustrates me the most is becoming familiar with these things too late in life. I’m not far from age 30 and it seems most guys have this figured out by early 20s.”
If you’re in your 30s and you feel like you’re figuring out women, confidence, dating, and relationships “too late,” you’re absolutely not. You’re actually figuring it out early – I didn’t even really start until my mid-30s, and I have plenty of clients that age and much older (even in their 50s and 60s) who come to us really in need of help and go on to have great dating and love lives. You’ve got plenty of time.
You’ve got plenty of time.
If you’re worried about being “too old” for the women you’re attracted to, trust me that that’s just a story in your head. It’s not true at all. I’m 49, and I’ve dated much younger women in the last few years. When you’re confident and comfortable in your skin, they will be comfortable and attracted to you. If you’re not bothered by your age or their age, they won’t be.
Of course there are exceptions and every woman is different, but in general, age is only a factor in terms of how old you seem. If you’re my age or older but full of life, women won’t really see you as “old.” If a girl is in her early 20’s but wise beyond her years, she may not seem as young. And on the other hand, a woman who seems very young may actually not hold your attention and attraction for very long no matter how attractive she looks from across the room.
So stop worrying about how old you are and just focus on who you’re being and becoming as a man. At any age, but especially if you’re in you’re 30s!
Enjoy the video 🙂
