Women are attracted to men with purpose. What that purpose is doesn’t usually matter to women much – it’s having a drive that you’re acting on that’s attractive and goes a long way towards drawing women to you.
Editor’s Note: This post was originally published in August 2016.
In general, women don’t really care exactly what your purpose is, but as Way of The Superior Man author, says, man’s purpose has to be greater than women. Greater than himself.:
“If you don’t know your purpose, discover it, now.
The core of your life is your purpose. Everything in your life, from your diet to your career, must be aligned with your purpose if you are to act with coherence and integrity in the world. If you know your purpose, your deepest desire, then the secret of success is to discipline your life so that you support your deepest purpose and minimize distractions and detours.”
It’s that drive and passion for life that draws women to you. It can be as simple as a passion for your work or a even a hobby, but great examples of men on purpose include
Virgin Group CEO Richard Branson and Martin Luther King, Jr. Brian discusses these two more in the video.
A couple of ways to explore and find your purpose that Brian discusses in the video:
-Just pick one, take action, and explore from that point. Your purpose will become more and more clear from that point forward.
-Go sit in a tent in your backyard.
–do not move until you feel a strong sense of purpose vs distraction, aka reactivity/getting rid of the tension
–don’t get up and go to the bathroom until it’s your purpose
–learn to savor tension
Resources:
Way of the Superior Man by David Deida
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