Learn how to start conversations with girls that lead to dates in this video, and build your overall confidence with women with 5 critical elements of your confidence and attractiveness. What you say to women – the words – don’t matter and won’t consistently get you dates until you get these first.
Editor’s Note: This post was originally published in August 2016.
FEARLESS founder Brian Begin breaks down 5 keys to conversations that actually build sexual chemistry and attraction with women so that they’re actually interested in you and EXCITED TO go out on a date with you instead of getting bored of you, being “cold” to you, or putting you in their Friend Zone.
The 5 Keys to Start Conversations With Girls that Brian discusses:
1) Have FUN!
Enjoying yourself and enjoying the woman you’re talking to as an end to itself – enjoying the moment you’re in regardless of what the “result” might be is a big part of making you feel more confident yourself and come off as more confident to women, making you magnetic and attractive, and overall turning women on.
2) Be GROUNDED
Most women are attracted to grounded men. Being grounded – relaxed in your body and present – makes people (women especially) feel safer and more comfortable in your presence.
3) Tension: Add & play with sexual tension and tension in general
Having sexual chemistry with women is crucial to creating romantic and/or sexual connections with women and staying out of the Friend Zone. Chemistry is a form of tension, so it’s absolutely crucial to your dating life (and longterm relationships, too) to get in touch with your skills in creating, managing, and maintaining tension.
4) Be vulnerable – emotionally accessible, and strong in your emotions
Vulnerability is often confused by men as weakness. But allowing yourself to feel and express your heavy emotions – in a non-needy, “This is whqat I’m feeling but I can handle it” (ownig it) kind of way is actually the truest form of confidence, it makes you magnetic to most people, and it makes you highly attractive to women.
5) LEAD!
By and large, women are going to want you to lead when it comes to flirting and dating. This doesn’t in any way mean you have to be rigid and not let women lead sometimes or be involved in decision-making. What it means more often is you being willing and ready to lead with: stepping into the tension of starting conversations, being direct, being vulnerable and real, asking for what you want, and gently directing things where you want them to go.
Follow-up Video – Watch this next: What to Say to Girls When Meeting Them – How to Flirt & Talk to Girls
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