One key to how to text girls is not to text them when you’re feeling, needy, emotional, insecure, angry etc. In this video, I’ll talk about how and why I clean up my emotional state girls before I text or reply to texts from girls.
Many men constantly are asking questions about how to text girls, which is natural. Being good at texting girls is an important skill these days, but a big part of that is how you’re feeling before you even start to consider what to say.
How you’re feeling and your emotional state always comes across when you text girls. If you’re feeling confident and solid, you’re going to send a text that’s congruent with that emotional state. If you’re feeling insecure or needy, for example, the chances of you texting a girl something weird (or that’s just congruent with THAT emotional state) get much higher. Your subconscious is strong, as are your emotions. Even if you’re trying to think about what you’d say or text her from a better emotional place but you’re not truly there, your subconscious is likely to screw you up. And women are generally so much more sensitive to emotions than us men – they’ll sometimes pick up on even slight things that are off…especially from the sense they’ve gotten from you both before and in person when you’re in different emotional states.
So you want to clean up your emotional state before you text girls or even respond to their texts. For example:
-If you’re coming off an argument or disagreement with a girl and you still feel reactive (bound up inside, stressed, shaky, pissed off, etc), that’s not a good moment to text her.
-If you’re feeling nervous or insecure about something (ie: whether she likes you..or STILL likes you, you’re about to ask her on a date or ask her something else that you’re nervous about the outcome of), then is not a good moment to text her.
Before you text them, you ideally want to get to a place where you’re accepting and free and enjoying the girls…whether they respond to your texts or not, because that freedom = confidence and that’s what’s REALLY, mega attractive to women.
I go into all of this stuff more in the video – enjoy!
