Dating advice for older men is the topic as Brian interviews the 63 year-old Sam Pond, a FEARLESS client who transformed his dating life despite his age.
Editor’s Note: This post was originally published in July 2019.
A lot of older men who don’t have the dating, love, and sex lives they want think that part of their lives has passed them by. They think they’re just “too old.” They don’t think women they’re attracted to would ever like them, think it’s too late to change, or have other various stories and limiting beliefs around their age.
Well, Sam is here to challenge your beliefs around all that and open your mind to a much greater reality!
Sam always lived an adventurous life and on paper it looked great, but much of it was filled with stress and constantly trying to “prove something” to others. He also had a ton of “Nice Guy Syndrome” running and avoided, diffused, or numbed out tension at all costs. Sam just wanted to finish out his life “without hassle.” That’s not truly living at all.
At 55 years old with a 15-year marriage behind him, Sam had a nervous breakdown. It was then that he really began his path of personal development and figuring out women.
Sam then went from a 55-year old who couldn’t attract ANY women to save his life to someone who now has more and more of the dating life of his dreams and also dates much younger women.
Just a taste of the dating advice for older men and other things Sam and Brian discuss in the video:
-Sam’s journey
-Why you’re only as old – or young – as your energy and vibe
-How Sam is actually feeling younger and younger as he grows!
-How Sam tried and tried to do more of the same, expecting different results
-Going on dates feeling like you have to impress the woman
-Healthy enjoyment of external validation vs toxic addiction to it for your self-esteem
-Realizing women want to meet men and getting more comfortable around them
-Dating younger women
-The challenge of letting go of your analytical/over-thinking nature with women when that has served you very well in your career or other areas of your life
-Opening your heart…and the uncomfortable feelings that can come with that
-Embracing vulnerability, anger, and other commonly repressed or mishandled emotions
-feeling like a clueless teenager in an old man’s body
-feeling broken
-Becoming aware of self-abusive thinking, beliefs, and behavior
-facing and moving through heavy emotions that are holding you back…even if you don’t know it
-Much more!
Resources:
The Alabaster Girl by Zan Perrion
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FEARLESS with Women – Brian’s ebook
