Do girls – especially “hot girls” – like fat guys? Whether women are attracted to a fat guy is much more about how the guy feels about his size and himself than the fat itself. Learn why it doesn’t actually matter to women if you’re fat in this video… FEARLESS founder Brian Begin explains why it doesn’t really matter to women if you’re fat.
Editor’s Note: This post was originally published in August 2016.
Yes, women can be and very often are attracted to overweight men. Even extremely good looking women! In general, women are attracted to who you’re being as a man far more than what you look like. So if you’re a fat guy who’s confident in himself and good with sexual tension and connection (see videos below), then your weight isn’t going to be a deal breaker for the majority of women.
However, if your weight is a reflection of poor health and bad habits taking care of yourself, then that WILL hurt your attractiveness to women – especially more confident girls – because at some level, you don’t fully like (love) yourself if you’re treating your body poorly and not taking care of yourself. Women also just tend to not be attracted to men who don’t take care of themselves.
So take care of your health – that’s self-love. And losing weight and working out CAN be great for your self-esteem, but it’s not always as simple as the physical work. You’ve got to feel great about yourself all the way down to your core if you want great results with great women, and often that requires focused internal self-confidence work as well. Don’t let the gym become a way to avoid facing – or cover up – your insecurities.
There’s a reason some gym rats actually still struggle with women – they’re taking care of their physiques, but not fully facing their insecurities internally. And women can sense that right away. Not all, but most women will be far more attracted to a fat guy who’s confident and loves himself than a guy with ripped abs but still comes off as insecure.
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