Being or becoming good with women without loving and taking care of yourself and your life is doing it the (very) hard, and unhealthy way.
FEARLESS founder Brian Begin talks to advanced clients about the importance of loving yourself and your daily life in relation to getting good with girls, dating, sex, and relationships.
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Check out our first-ever The FEARLESS Man Live | Masculine Self-Love Edition, July 11th-12th. Virtual tickets available so you can even attend from wherever you are in the world!
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Shot during the May 2016 Weeklong Intensive in Bucharest, Romania.
Are you actually enjoying your day regardless of women or any other external validation?
The nature of “wanting” implies lack. If you have a glass of water, do you still want a glass of water? No, you chose it and now have it. So when it comes to women, or anything you want more of in your life, really, you need to shift that wanting into a sense of choice and true, deep down belief in your ability to have what it is that you’re after.
And, especially with women, that’s about learning to love your life right where it’s at.
Do you genuinely enjoy at least 80% of your day? And do you take care of yourself and your space?
If not – if you only clean your room when a woman might be coming over, for example, or if you only truly feel good about your day when you have a date that evening, then your reality is a mess…and you’re going to invite a girl into that mess? Why would she want to be in this reality? And if you’re hiding your messy reality on your literal or figurative closet when a woman you’re interested in comes along, you’re basically lying to her about your life.
So can you enjoy the basics of life – the beauty of nature outside, your space at home, and your daily routine, without needing anyone or anything outside you to validate you?
Without that, women (and everyone else) will feel your self-hate at one level or another.
Be sure to watch the video where Brian takes things much deeper.
Check out our first-ever The FEARLESS Man Live | Masculine Self-Love Edition, July 11th-12th. Virtual tickets available so you can even attend from wherever you are in the world!
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