In this video, I answer a viewer’s question: Do you need to be good looking or rich to get women?
This week’s question comes from Burk:
Burk asks:
“The most inspiring videos on your channel for me are the ones where you talk about these men who are not good looking or rich, but they are still insanely confident and when they go out, they know that women will like them. I really want to feel like they do, but I can’t figure out how. I feel like confidence must be based on some real things in real life and not imagination in my head, otherwise I’d be delusional.
I’m not good looking, actually, one would not be blamed for thinking I’m downright ugly. I don’t have much money to my name, I have a boring job, I don’t have skills or experience with women. I don’t have anything to base this confidence on. So, without being delusional, how can I be confident? How can I go out of the house and talk to women expecting them to like me? How do these guys that you talk about get to feel like this?”
Do You Need To Be Good Looking or Rich to Get Women? No – Looks don’t play into your attractiveness to women nearly as much as tension skills. Tension skills are the most important thing to your confidence and one of the most important things to your attractiveness as a man. And then it’s about welcoming your attraction and sexual turn-on for the woman in front of you.
You don’t money or looks to master this. It’s just like lifting weights – you go out and lift a little more weight (face higher levels of tension) each day and you get a little better. You slowly build more confidence with women and become more attractive to women in the process.
Lots more in the video – enjoy!
