Professional Dom Arcane is back for part two of our discussion of “Fifty Shades of Grey” and BDSM in real life.
In part two, we delve into the science and psychology behind pleasure and BDSM and kink, and we explore real-life dom/sub relationships (vs their portayal in “50 Shades of Grey”) and the deep levels of connection and consciousness that arise from BDSM. We also cover safe words, hand signals, the stop-light system and why using “yellow” well is the key to having a great time with BDSM-play, and much more!
Arcane (CrowAcademy.com, ArcaneAdvice.com) teaches men & women his style and school of BDSM play all over the world.
In Depth-Arcane & the FEARLESS crew discuss:
-How experimenting with BDSM-play and learning to do it right helps people in all areas of their life (2:41)
-Relationship types & dynamics within BDSM (5:00)
-Safe Words & the “Stop Light System” (6:30)
-Why mastering the use of “Yellow” is crucial (7:41)
-Hand Signals & why they’re important (8:09)
-Why Arcane’s called “Red” more than all of his partners combined (8:37)
-Correct and incorrect use of safe words (10:52)
-Rules for drinking & playing (12:00)
-Celebrations of Dom/Sub relationship agreements (13:10)
-Lengths of Dom/Sub relationship agreements (15:00)
-Endorphins and states of consciousness in BDSM (16:07)
-Spirituality, BDSM, & Tantra: How BDSM can evoke spiritual experiences (21:14)
-After-Care: Doms helping Subs recover (23:21)
-Therapeutic, stress-relief, and personal growth qualities of BDSM (24:27)
-Differences between Doms and Subs vs tops and bottoms (26:04)
-Psychology of subs (submissives) (27:05)
-“Calling her on her bullshit”: What Subs want out of their Doms (28:28)
-Being a great leader: In BDSM & life (30:29)
-And more!
Resources
The Crow Academy – Master Arcane’s school and style of BDSM: http://www.crowacademy.com/bonus
Arcane Advice – Free lessons from Master Arcane: http://www.arcaneadvice.com
“Igniting the Fire: The Art of Romantic Submission (The Crow Academy Book 1)” ebook: http://amzn.to/1vx7rfG
“The Tantric Advantage Of BDSM” ArcaneAdvice.com article:
http://www.arcaneadvice.com/tantric-tangent/
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