Many men are not confident sexually and in life-comes from sexual shame. Both towards themselves AND women. Powerfully confident men don’t apologize for their sexuality or put women and their sexuality in a box.
FEARLESS founder Brian Begin talks about embracing your sexuality and the sexuality of women, as he addresses students in the Advanced Bucharest, Romania weeklong program October 18th-24th, 2015.
Sexual shame is a very real thing that holds far too many people back from enjoying their sexuality to the fullest. It’s a form of self-judgment that can be incredibly damaging, both mentally and physically. It’s important to realize that sexuality is nothing to be ashamed of – it’s a natural part of who we are as human beings. Unfortunately, sexual shame is often perpetuated by society, which leads people to believe that there’s something wrong with being sexual.
If you want to be confident sexually, you need to be open-minded about what women want. Too often, men make judgments about women’s sexual desires and what’s ok for them to do or fantasize about. This creates a barrier to communication and prevents women from feeling comfortable opening up to you. Instead, try to be supportive and understanding. This will create a more positive and confident sexual relationship.
Women are sensitive creatures. They can tell when a man is confident in his sexuality and when he is not. If a man is not confident in his own sexuality, he will have a hard time pleasing a woman sexually. A woman wants a man who is confident in his own sexuality and who is comfortable with her own sexuality. If a man is not confident in his own sexuality, he will be afraid to let go and be wild with her. He will be afraid to experiment and try new things.
A confident man is not afraid to let go and be wild with a woman. He knows how to please a woman sexually and he knows how to make her feel good. A confident man is the kind of man that a woman wants to be with sexually.
You’ve got to make her feel totally safe opening up to you.
