No, the answer to how to deal with arguments with women is NOT just saying, “Sorry baby, you’re right,” all the time. It’s to stop analyzing what she’s saying and get in touch with what’s truly going on.
Editor’s Note: This post was originally published in April 2016. The post has been updated while the video is in its originally-published form.
Ruwan Meepagala from “Masculine Underground” FEARLESS founder Brian Begin discuss a few of the almost-always-missed undertones of what may really be going on when a woman is having a seemingly “illogical” argument with you, and on talking to women in general.
Someones women’s words – especially when they know you a little bit, but this can happen at any point – will totally conflict with what they’re actually feeling or trying to communicate. They want you to be in tune with them enough and emotionally intelligent enough to pick up on the things underneath the surface. That’s part of being a solid, really connected and aware man she can trust.
If a woman just seems to be acting crazy…she could be turned on! Or she may be (consciously or unconsciously) trying to get the best out of you in testing your ability to stand your ground in a calm, cool, CONNECTED way…which, if done successfully could turn her on. Or it could be a multitude of other, non-sexual reasons, but you’ve got to stop analyzing women’s words (in all conversations…and really, men’s words too) and get in touch with your gut, your instincts, and the person’s subtle emotions and feelings. This is discussed in-depth in the full episode.
Meepagala (Ruwando.com) is a sex, relationships, and creativity coach for men and women – his written work has appeared in numerous publications, including Psychology Today, AskMen.com, The Good Men Project, and Orgasm Daily.
Watch the full episode: Meet & Attract Women the Most Natural Way: Trust your Gut – Ruwan Meepagala | Becoming FEARLESS (Episode 9
More on listening: The Most Overlooked Skill to Attract Women – Be a Great, Connected Listener
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