In this Sex Signals interview with Emily, she and Brian discuss how women seduce men, how women show interest, and why it’s important for you to understand these subtleties of communication.
Sex Signals – Signs She’s Interested!
In the video, Emily shares an experience she had while at a club and the non-verbal communication that was going on between her and a man that she was interested in.
Brian and Emily break down the subtle communication that was going on during the interaction, both non-verbally and verbally. Emily also shares why it’s important for men to understand these subtleties.
Some of the things Emily and Brian go over:
-The different ways Emily let the man know she was interested
-Just how much eye contact and non-verbal communication happened before she and the man actually spoke to each other, and why that worked
-How often (or NOT often) men flirtatiously “dance” with her like this
-What the man’s behavior and subcommunication told her about who he was…and how he’d likely be in a relationship with her
-Breaking down how she behaved and signs that she liked him, and what’s common in women’s behavior
-Why men getting a little nervous can actually be attractive when it’s done right
-How she tested the guy when he finally came up to talk to her
-Why you need to let go of your resentment for the game and “dance” of flirting, and women’s tests
-What happens when you’re reactive to the “dance” and her tests
We often hear men getting annoyed and frustrated with this dance of flirting and the subtleness with which women most often flirt, and complaining that women should stop “playing games” and be straightforward. But this is just what turns women on! It’s what creates the sparks of emotional connection and sexual attraction, and it’s a piece of them getting to know and beginning to trust you.
You probably get turned on, at least partially, by a woman presenting herself well: dressing well, doing her hair, and maybe her makeup too. And yes, a man with good fashion-sense is great, but what’s much more attractive to women is a man who can dance with her like this.
Whether it’s a connection for a lifetime, one night, or anything in between, most women want to feel excited, special, and like they’re in a fairy-tale (or a romantic comedy or some other kind of romance-involved genre) for a moment or two when meeting a man. This is how you co-create those little moments with them.
And you can learn to enjoy and have fun with it, too! That’s what it’s all about.
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Related:
Before “Hello:” How to Make a Good First Impression When Meeting Someone New
How to Give Women Compliments so They Get Attracted to You
