The way you touch women can either increase attraction and chemistry, or it can make her want to run away. In this video, Brian and Aria demo and discuss the “creepy touch” and the subtleties most dating advice misses in how to touch a woman without being creepy.
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This video is part 3 of 3 videos on the subtle behaviors that can ruin and kill attraction.
Watch Part 1 here.
Watch Part 2 here: How to Be Cocky in a Good Way
A lot of dating advice on how to touch a woman without being creepy from dating coaches and other experts focuses on timing, techniques, or where to touch women and where not to touch them. But at FEARLESS, we like to focus on the subtleties of what makes things (what to say to women, what to do on dates, etc) “work” for some men while the exact same words, techniques, and behaviors will fail miserably for many other men.
The same is true for touching women…whether you’re first approaching and meeting them, starting out on the first date with a woman, or starting to get closer and more intimate with her: The most impactful element in your touch and whether it comes off as creepy or sexy is how YOU are feeling when you touch women.
As Brian and Aria talk about and demonstrate in the video (pay attention to how quickly and viscerally Aria reacts when she’s creeped out), your emotions are very transferrable. If you feel extremely anxious or uncomfortable (…or creepy!), she’s likely to feel that way. This is true throughout communication but even moreso when it comes to breaking that physical barrier and touching her. If you’re feeling good and relaxed and you’re genuinely enjoying touching her, she’s much more likely to feel good about it herself.
In the video, Brian and Aria also go into these pitfalls of how to touch a woman without being creepy:
-taking energy (There being a subtle but strong sense that you want something from her)
-too much pushing energy with your sexual turn-on
Finally, they go into more grounded, relaxed, allowing energy that makes her feel safe when you touch her while still being very direct and allowing her to feel your attraction and turn-on.
Enjoy!
