You need to be able to lead and manage conversations with women both on dates and when you’re first meeting them. I answer a viewer question about this.
initiatorhater0688 asked:
“Specifically, what is the difference between carrying the conversation vs. leading the conversation? give specific examples of leading the conversation, does that mean the guy is asking all or most of the questions, making most of the statements?”
You absolutely do want to let women do their feminine thing by expressing and talking…yes, even talking a lot more than you. Don’t believe any PUA or other dating coaching nonsense that says you must dominate conversations. Sitting back and being a good listener (watch this old video on being a great listener with women if you haven’t already) is extremely valuable and attractive. My business partner here at FEARLESS, Dave, tells our students all the time that he justs shuts up, listens to women on dates.
But at the same time, you do need to be able to be the masculine leader and container of the conversation, even when you’re doing more of the listening and letting her do most of the talking. If she just completely blabs the whole time with no direction towards you two connecting more deeply and building sexual tension and chemistry, that’s where it can lead to the Friend Zone, or just a date that kind of ends with little momentum or sparks for a second date. I talk about my own experience with that in the video, and how I made adjustments to ensure that wouldn’t happen again…along with much more on leading conversations and your overall interactions and dates with women.
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