Have you ever had trouble getting a girl to talk to you? I’m not just talking about starting a conversation, but actually making her want to keep talking. It’s probably one of the most common problems men face when it comes to women.
Well, there is one simple trick that will make her want to talk to you… and it’s really quite easy. All you need is some courage and confidence. Plus, it works on any woman – regardless of whether she’s interested in you or not. Believe me, I know from experience! So what is this magical trick? Watch this video to find out!
Video Transcription:
What’s going on, guys? Welcome to Fearless Friday. Now, the number one problem I see with guys when I take them out is that they don’t know what to say to women, or they’re very afraid to approach them because they don’t know what to say.
And so, in this video, I’m going to talk about how to get a girl open, but also I’m going to give you guys a tick and trick, if you stay to the end, that’ll get a girl to open to you right away and want to talk to you.
Now, I’ve been practicing this trick all day today, and I’ve talked to at least six or seven girls in the grocery stores alone just by practicing this trick. So if you stay to the end, I’ll give you guys a trick, and I want you guys to go out there and practice it, and in the comments let us know how it’s been working for you, okay?
Now, before we jump into all that, let’s talk about the problem here, because this is a big issue with guys. What do I say? What do I say? A lot of guys don’t like the idea of walking up and not having something prepared to say. It’s very nerve-wracking. There are too many variables, right? And when there are too many variables, almost anything can wrong, right? And that’s a very negative way to look at it, but a lot of guys do have that outlook.
I used to have that outlook too. Wasn’t till I started doing the work and getting better at approaching that I started to actually enjoy going into interactions unprepared, because that’s actually where all the magic happens. When you don’t have something preplanned to say, you get the most genuine version of yourself.
So, in this video, I really want to harp on little things that will make women open up to you that’ll make it a lot easier for you to have a great conversation with the girl.
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Now, onto the meat and potatoes here. Now, this is the trick, this is a little tip I’m going to give you guys, right. It might sound very oversimplified, but it works dramatically, has a great effect on women. Give compliments freely. Freely is the keyword here. Indifferent to outcome, just give, okay?
Now, you guys might be like, “Well, I heard you’re not supposed to give girls compliments because they get so many of them already and they don’t receive them because guys are constantly giving them compliments all day.” Not the compliments they care about, not the compliments that actually land, not the compliments they want. Right? They’re probably cat-calling, they’re probably doing things that are not coming from a grounded nature.
When I go out and I give a girl a compliment, I’m enjoying the tension of it. I’m giving the compliment. I’m standing in the tension of it. I’m making sure she heard what I said. I’m not running away from the tension of it, and I’m enjoying it so I can receive back what she has to say about that.
I’m not looking for a response, but when you do it like that, you get responses back from women, and you’ll get a much larger percent of them to respond when you show up in the tension and you start to enjoy just the giving nature of it.
Not giving and running. Not giving the compliment and then trying to get the hell out of there. No, give the compliment and hang out for a bit. Give the compliment like, “I like your sweater.” Right? Let her hear it, let her receive it, let her say what she has to say, and then keep the conversation going.
If you stay to the end of this video, I’ve got a great video that pairs really well with this, to help you guys keep the conversation going once you’ve got a girl open.
Now, I was in the store today, and I do this very unconsciously now because I learned to overtime. I saw a girl, she had a nice sweater on. It was a floral sweater, very floral. She had a backpack that was also floral. And so I was like, “I like your sweater.” And she was like, “Oh, thank you.” She put her hand on her mouth, start giggling, kind of like Japanese.
But she wasn’t Japanese. She was totally not. But I was like, “I like how you match it with your backpack.” And I was like, “You’re into fashion?” She was like, “No, no, I just like these little floral tidbits.” I was like, “Okay, I like it. I get it. It’s really old fashioned.” She was like, “Yeah, yeah, that’s why I love it.”
She just kept yapping and talking for a little bit. I let her go. And then I ran into this other girl, she had these nice Vans on and they had this tie-dye pattern on them, and I was like, “I like your Vans.” She was like, “Oh my God, thank you.” She’s like, “I bought these, and I have a matching pair with my daughter.” And so right off the bat, I was like, “Oh, yeah.” I was like, “You have kids.” I was like, “How old is your daughter?” And she was like, “Oh, my daughter is three years old. I’ve got another seven-year-old and I got a 13-year-old.” I was like, “Oh, you’re mommy mommy.” She’s like, “Yeah, I’m a full-time mom.”
And she just couldn’t stop talking about her kids. And so, I thought I was pretty awesome, right. I got her opened up and she was just chatting, just chatting.
I let her get, saw some other girl down the aisle. She had a cool little shirt on. I told her I liked the shirt. The shirt, it was a NASA shirt, and I’ve got a bunch of NASA shirts at home. And so I was like, “I like your NASA shirt.” She was, “Oh, thank you.” She was like, “My boyfriend’s dad works at JPL.” I was like, “Oh, that’s pretty interesting.” I was like, “Okay. So you’re into that stuff?” She’s like, “Yeah, I love that stuff. We went down there, we did a tour, it was awesome.”
And these things were very easy to get them open, right? It was just like giving a little compliment on things that I actually noticed. Again, this is the trick, you guys got to go out and find your genuine curiosity about women.
Be attentive. Notice what she’s wearing, right? Notice the earrings, notice the hairstyle, right? Notice the eyelashes, maybe notice the shirt, the pants, the shoes, the attire, and give compliments on those types of things that stand out to you. Because women love compliments that they feel are actually genuine and real and not just one’s guys are giving them to get into their pants because they know the difference. Okay, guys.
So take that tip, go out there, exercise it, practice it, and put in the comments how this is working for you. Don’t go out there and half-ass it. Go actually do it, right? Go out and make it an exercise. “Cool, I’m going to go out today and I’m going to compliment three girls on three things I notice about them.” Right? Maybe it’s a hat she has on. Maybe it’s a ponytail. Maybe it’s a shirt. Maybe it’s her shoes.
Go out and do it, and don’t come back and comment unless you’ve actually done the work. Because there’s nothing worse than somebody flooding the comment section and they haven’t really done the exercise and they’re talking about how it actually doesn’t work. I don’t believe that because I know it actually works. Okay?
Go and watch the video I have titled Do This When Talking To Women And You’ll Never Have To Worry About What To Say Again. That video is going to tell you everything you need to know about how to carry those conversations once you have those women open. All right?
So again, short video today, guys, but I hope I drove my point home. I will see you guys in next week’s video. And remember, only the confident really live. Peace.
