POWER OF YOUR EMOTIONS WHEN COMMUNICATING WITH WOMEN

Other people can feel your emotions – even when you try to hide them… And that gives you tremendous power to create strong connections.
In positive psychology, there is the notion of positive inception: it’s the ability to
transfer your feelings and emotions to another human being.
Some people have it naturally – at really high levels.

Really popular speakers, artists, musicians… who are great at relating to their
emotions… They’re great at creating emotions in others.
And if you think that you’re not good at it – that’s a skill set that can be developed.
You have done it before, but you probably didn’t realize that you were doing it. It
could have been during a conversation. You were in this bubble and nothing else
existed and you were not so much relating to words as to what you were feeling, the
back and forth of that moment. The emotional states.

Women are typically better at it then men; they’re relating emotionally back and
forth, they’re sharing their experiences of fear, they’re sharing their experiences of
love, they’re sharing their experiences of pain. And when one women shares her
experiences of pain, the other women feel it. And enjoy feeling it.
Now, everybody’s capable of this. Every human being is capable of this.
And the people that can best feel their emotions, channel them and connect to
another human being, create a bubble… They are magnetic.
You can even learn how to drop into that bubble by will. You can do learn how to
let other people feel your emotions. A lot of people have a difficult time with this,
especially men.

Imagine, you meet a woman for the first time, and instead of thinking so much about
what you’re going to tell her, you drop down into feeling, relating to your body and
you open up to these feelings.
Your nervous system opens up, so the nerves let you feel more in the body, and then,
when you look at the person in front of you, they actually feel your curiosity.
And that causes them to open up, to want to relate.
I think every guy has had that moment where the girl says: “Why so many questions,
I feel like I’m being interviewed!”.

Well, that will tell you right there that you’re not really relating emotionally to the
human being in front of you, you’re not talking to her from feeling.
Because, ultimately, dating and meeting women is all about connection and getting
to know each other.

I had a client earlier in my career, he told me: ”I don’t want to connect to anybody,
I don’t like people, I just want to fuck women”. To which I said: “Well, then go buy
prostitutes, because the honest truth is that you’re gonna have a hard time meeting
and having sex with women if there’s absolutely no connection and you don’t even
like them”.

You have to connect with the women in front of you.
And for some guys, that’s scary.
That’s really scary, because that can mean love, that can mean relationship, and guys
are scared of all that.
But when you actually connect and you actually start really relating to people, that
allows you to work very quickly trough all the issues that have been keeping you
from actually having relationships.

And that allows you to become strong, powerful and confident as a man.
And that confidence is not just the ability to stand tall… And deal with difficult
situations. But, at the deepest level, confidence is your ability to be completely
vulnerable and not apologize for it. Not asking to for anyone to validate you. Not
saying, “please like me, because I’m vulnerable, please love me back”.
It’s like this: “this is the way I feel, I’m completely open… It may hurt me, but I’ll deal
with it. “
And when you come from that place, you’re super charismatic and magnetic, to
women, but also to life.