In this video, Brian and Emily chat about an experience she had while out with her friends, the non-verbal flirting that was going on between her and a man who liked her, and what men can do in those situations.
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They talk about how Emily uses subtle signals to get guys’ attention, how often guys don’t “get it,” and what it’s all about for her. Emily even admits that the guy in her story was kind of shy, but the way he still engaged in this flirting “dance” with her made him very attractive to her.
Emily talks about finding herself touching her body a lot and opening up her body language when she likes a guy around her…and what it looks like when a woman isn’t interested.
She and Brian also discuss Zan Perrion‘s “Beauty needs a witness” idea, and how important that is.
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Transcript:
Brian: So, uh, today we have a special treat for you. We’re here with a beautiful Emily and we’re going to be talking about sex signals are going to be diving deeper into this world of, uh, of how women actually talked to communicate, socialize, and pick up on men. Would you say your, you’ve ever been guilty of a, picking up a guy but doing it in that, in the way I’m talking about that sex second oil kind of subtle.
Emily: Oh yeah, yeah. Oh yeah.
Brian: three. Oh yes, we’re good here and this is nice. We’re off to a good start because they say one in 31, men can read your signals consciously and that most men can’t. Emily: Absolutely. Most men are clueless and maybe you know, it took 40 minutes because he was shy, you know, and he was and he didn’t know my signals either. Figuring them out a little bit. She was figuring it out too, which is totally okay.
Brian: Now would you. This is a question, a really important question I think. Do you think you’ve ever used subtle signals to pick up a guy and he didn’t realize what you did because he wasn’t. He was clueless, but it’s still.
Emily : I’m trying to think of an exact example, but of course absolutely.
Brian: This is one of the common things in the old pickup community was don’t break eye contact first hold eye contact and it’s going to get when she breaks eye contact. She’s submitting to you in a sense, and this is a thing that I’ve heard from guys and it’s just like they and so guys don’t realize the. There’s also an emotional content to the eye contact and feeling content. So let’s say I live my life in my head, disconnected from my body, I don’t have good emotional feeling and then I just like, I got to make good eye contact and I just stare and stare and stare and there’s, it gets. It can get creepy really fast.
Emily: Yeah. It’s not, you know, also because the dance is sexual from the very beginning. We want to feel that you can kind of.
Brian: Well, let’s talk about this. This is really important what you just said. So for a woman when she does, when you’re doing your eye contact and you start to play with your hair and you start to look at, um, the primary thing I see going on, I would love to hear you talk about this is the feeling sense in your is leading all those movements. Absolutely. So what’s that like for you? Like you, where do you feel it? Do you feel it down through the body and this is. And, and can you tell if they can feel it? Some guys can’t feel it, right?
Emily: I think so. And I think we can feel, if you are making us feel it, there’s, I mean a man can look at you and it can just like, you can have a shutter through your entire body if he does it right,
Brian: if he can pick up on that, he can like to start to ride those waves with you. And it’s not something that’s just physical. No, not at all. And so if he starts to ride those waves with you, he can give you a charge back with his version, a masculine version of that. But he’s got to build a see it on you and feel it on you first. Right?
Emily: And immediately, I think you’ll notice in a woman if you’re able to do that, she becomes more feminine automatically. Yeah. I can’t help it. I mean that’s when you start kind of playing with. You’re getting, yeah, you’re just feeling your body and you feel much more feminine.
Brian: And so because of the central parts of your body turn off naturally. For a woman, how important is it that she has. I mean guys think a lot of guys out there think that you’re doing something to them when you’re in that state. So some of the, not all guys, but some guys think they see a woman do that, they see the effect it has on men and then they automatically assume that, you know, women have all this power over bed. Right? And so when you, when I don’t look at it that way, I used to kind of look at it that way. Now I look at it is now a woman’s giving me okay?
Emily: Yeah, yeah. I mean, hey, we want to have power over you a little bit. Just think you want to have power over us. Like that’s the sexual dynamics. You can’t deny that that’s going to be there. But again, it’s play, it’s not. And I think so many people end up taking it into this negative way, you know, don’t you want a woman to cast a spell on you? I mean, don’t. You want to be able to feel that kind of sensuality that she can give you and absolutely will give you that power back.
