Zan Perrion and Brian discuss qualities of masculinity that drive women crazy and make men magnetic to women.
Brian B: Yeah..
Zan Perrion: Well, I mean, my whole book is trying to capture the spirit of that, you know, spent my whole life trying to observe and sit in the energy and wonder about the spirit of men who have women in your life. What do they do differently without going initially, if they can solve the techniques and something that was something they’re wearing or the things they say.And then what I learned in my years of studying the craft so to speak, is that there’s a way that they vibrate also say that there’s a, there’s an energy thing. So I tried to capture that in words in my book invested girl took me 10 years to write it. And that’s all I was writing about was like, that wasn’t really, even though it’s a book about women sort of the book about the vibration that women respond to him, I guess you could say.
Brian B: Yeah, it’s interesting because we were doing a video yesterday or a series of Instagram videos of the seven natural laws, which is laws that are applied to everything and how everything works and one of the laws, the law of rhythm. And if you go out in life and you look at life, everything has a rhythm to it. Like surfing has a rhythm, music has a risk. Even even whatever business you choose to build is going to have a rhythm and cycles within that business and within the marketing of it and the product of and sales and how men and women have a rhythm. And I can’t tell you how many guys I think are trying to violate that rhythm all the time. It just won’t work. You can’t violate it and succeed. Got To work with the rhythm.
Zan Perrion: Yeah. I talked to dad yesterday. He says, you know, go on a date with a girl or you meet a girl, and I was getting into this banter. This is, I find myself getting into what he called Banter. He meant by that it gets into the digital fund approach that he might say or give, and then she responds and then he switches over to, so to live here and how long you’ve lived here. And you know, I’ve lived here for 10 years and what do, where do you go to school? He gets into this. His energy drains into this rapport type of normal conversation. That’s that part. And what I explained to him, because it’s true, is if you are, as soon as you dribble yourself down into that kind of a conversation, there’s no vibration for me anymore.
