Why do women suck? If it seems to you like women all suck or are bitches, then you need to look inwards at who you’re being as a man to keep attracting women who “suck” into your reality. You CAN find and date a plethora of awesome women!
Editor’s Note: This post was originally published in August 2016. The video is in its originally-published form while the post has been updated.
The way we see the world and what we’ve experienced to be true about people and life can feel really…true. Factual. But we often forget that we all have real blindspots and are seeing much of the world through lenses that are very colored by things like:
-those blindspots
-our insecurities
-our strengths and weaknesses
-our upbringing
-our parents, friends, family, and community
-our past experiences (which have been heavily influenced and shaped by everything else in this list)
-and numerous other factors
Another big one is the ego working very hard to protect you from feeling inadequate by looking for external factors that you can’t control to blame for not having what you want.
So while your experience of (in this case) women can seem so true, factual, and obvious that “women suck,” you need to realize that there are countless men out there going through life with an entirely different experience of women, dating, sex, and relationships.
And no, it’s not the case that those men are all good-looking, wealthy, famous, or whatever, either.
There are two main pieces that make up the kind of women you’re meeting:
-Who you’re being as a man and the vibe and energy that you put out into the world
-What your mind is looking for
You get what you give. If you’re a really confident, self-respecting, honest and direct, generous* man and those are the vibes people are getting from you, then you’re going to attract and find yourself surrounded by far more awesome women than women who are “bitches,” dishonest, gold diggers, insecure, crazy, or any other negative that might be on your mind. But because you will generally draw the kind of women who reflect who you’re being..if you’re angry at women at some level, insecure, needy, looking for validation, dishonest (especially if you consider yourself a “nice guy” who can’t attract women – see the related videos section), then those are the kind of women you’ll attract.
Truly generous-if you’re giving mainly in hopes of a return-ie women liking you or having sex with you-that’s not truly generous. That’s dishonest.
And if you’re focused on how women all suck, your mind will search for that in the world to prove you (and your ego) right. If you believe that women are amazing and you focus on that, you’ll find a lot more of that.
Related Videos:
Why Nice Guys Finish Last – “Nice Guys” Aren’t Nice | Inside FEARLESS #13
How to Attract Women – Expect them to like You | Inside FEARLESS #3
The MOST OVERLOOKED skill to Attract Women – Be a Great, Connected Listener
Being Confident, Vulnerable, & Authentic in Daily Life – Allana Pratt | Becoming FEARLESS
